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Smile to your husband

Smile to your husband

We all know that a woman should strive for the pleasure of her husband, for this is the pleasure of God. And each asks the question - how to achieve this contentment.

 

The first step for a woman in achieving contentment is to be submissive, respect her husband and do much, much more. But there is one small action that many of us, unfortunately, neglect, and this action can melt a husband’s heart just like the sun melts ice. It is a smile.

A sincere, kind, gentle smile. The smile with which a wife should meet and see her husband off. The smile that she should accompany his stay at home.

Give your husband your smile. Meet him in a good mood, and this will be the biggest reward for him after a difficult day at work.

It is not difficult, you see. You need no material or physical costs. But at the same time, you get a very significant and pleasant result, which manifests itself in the contentment of the husband and in a good mood.

But we women do not consider this small valuable action as an important in our family life. We do not allow ourselves to smile to our husband under the influence of resentment, pride and our dissatisfaction, thereby depriving ourselves both his joy and warmth, which are so necessary in close relationships.

A smile can work wonders! Believe me! It warms and brings us closer together. It gives a sense of importance and respect.

Do not believe me?

Let us do an experiment.

Starting today, begin to smile to your husband. And do it only sincerely, so that the smile shines with your inner light and warmth. Otherwise, there will be no result, because what does not come from the heart goes nowhere.

Start smiling more often than you have done before. Meet and see off your husband with a smile. Smile while talking, and smile even when you are silent. Smile and give your husband your warmth. And gradually you will be able to melt his heart, if God wills, just as the sun melts ice.

Do not neglect this small action, which does not require material and physical costs, smile and please your husband with your smile, especially since a smile is the Sunna of our dear Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him), which means that, smiling, we follow his path.

 

Raya Akavova

Psychologist

2026-07-01 (Muharram 1448) №7.


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